In:
- throwing out the rule book
- solo movie dates
- matching effort
- intimate dinner parties
- do not disturb
- spontaneity
- matinees
- hard launching everything
- top shelf tequila
- being “too much”
- walking
- kill lists
- sparkly, shiny everything
- transformation
- becoming a regular at a jazz club/dive bar
- glossy lips
- making bag and not being shy about it
- sweating, schvitzing, steaming
- boldness
- villain era
- consistency
Out:
- owing anyone anything
- almond milk
- small, basic people with small, basic lives
- scrolling
- expecting things from people
- uber eats
- minimalism
- limits
- imposter syndrome
- long nails
- relationships
- doing things you don’t want to do
- self doubt
- matte anything
- following the rules
- one shower a day
- perfection
- comfort pits and zones
- shame
- beige
- faux outrage over swearing
SANDI SIEGER. 